Ok i was able to solve my issues by having 2 public ip addresses to my vps here is what my Echolink.conf looks like.
Hope this helps.. Note that i have them connected to the same allstar node this important i do believe because of the chan_echolink
[el0]
ipaddr=23.239.26.208
confmode=no
call=KC9ZHV-L
pwd=#########
name=KC9ZHV Rpt System
qth=Olney, IL
maxstns=800
rtcptimeout=99
node=925514
recfile=/tmp/recorded.gsm
astnode=41834
context=radio-secure
#includeifexists custom/echolink.conf
#Deny=
#permit=
#erxgain=-3.0 ; defaults to -3.0 db
#etxgain=3.0 ; defaults to 3.0 db
[el1]
ipaddr=45.33.1.43
confmode=no
call=KC9ZHV-R
pwd=#############
name=KC9ZHV Rpt System
qth=Olney, IL
maxstns=800
rtcptimeout=99
node=898243
recfile=/tmp/recorded.gsm
astnode=41834
context=radio-secure