However, I bought a Yellow box from George WB3DZZ. He has taken those BF radios apart and made his connections to that and the sound cards his nodes also come with the HamVoip software.
He may can give you some tips since you have most all the pieces.
Otherwise, I would point you to the Allstar email list.
I like the HamVoip software but you can run ASL as well on a Raspberry Pi.
here are the emails for both groups:
Hope that helps let me know if you have any questions.
73,
Russell Thomas, KV4S
Cell: 205.202.1701
DMR Private: 3101393
DMR TG: 31013
D-Star Call Route (UR): KV4S
D-Star: XRF334C
AllStar: 47923
IRLP: 4535
EchoLink: KV4S-L (1003254)
HamShackHotline: 614